TOTALLY STRESSED!!!

A couple of days ago I was totally stressed.  I needed 200 pieces of a certain product for the job that I was working on.  I placed orders at three different Lowes.  I drove to them in the terrible south Florida traffic.  One store said they had 145 pieces but when I got there, they only had three.  I want to get this material.  I do not want to let my boss down.

Then, 20 minutes down the road, I get a message thanking me for picking up my order.  Someone clicked the wrong button and my credit card was charged $1,200 for items that they did not even have.  Are you feeling my pain?  And on top of this I was hangry.

This went on for an hour.  I was making myself sick.  Then I decided to take action.  I put on one of my podcasts from the Demello Spirituality Center.  I listened to the soothing tone of his voice.  I took in his thoughts.  I realized that I was worrying about things that I could do nothing about.  He said that I should not let it touch me.  I should not let the concerns stick to me.

He talked about how if you throw black paint up into the air, it doesn't make the air black.  We are the same way.  Things only have the power to effect us when we let them.

My breathing slowed.  Peace returned.  Later that day, the issue was resolved.  No wonder Jesus told us not to worry.

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.

Moved to pray

Sometimes prayer is a chore.  Sometimes I am moved to pray.  Today, I am moved to pray.

"Dear Father, you told us to ask, but sometimes I feel that I have no business asking anything of you.  You and I have had our moments over the years... but my heart is touched to reach out to you with prayers.  Prayers for Debra who has lung cancer.  And prayers for a young woman named Bella who is in the hospital with pneumonia and low blood pressure.  If you are waiting for a prayer to release your power and touch these two people, then let this be that prayer.  Please touch them and please bless them.  In Jesus' name, Amen."

I invite you to join me in the above prayer.

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.

She is gone

She emailed me or Facebook messaged me 2x a week.  She worried about a lot of things.  She was always interested in how I was doing.  She missed me.  She made great soup. She had a great laugh.  She told me that she loved me.  I know that she did.

And she is gone.

She died suddenly.  Well, if you are in your 90's it may not fit the deffinition of suddenly.  But she passed, and she is gone.  And I miss her messages.

She was a lovely, kind, gracious friend.  I know I will see her again.  Appreciate every moment that you have with the ones that you love... nothing lasts forever.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

When is Cinco de Mayo

I have told the same jokes over and over again for most of my life. Please laugh with me and enjoy.

Today is Cinco de Mayo. Cinco = five. Mayo = May. The fifth of May.

I love to ask people, "when is Cinco de Mayo this year?" Many people recognize it as a holiday but do not understand that it is date specific. Much like someone from another culture might hear that we celebrate a holiday called July 4th. If the words July and fourth don't translate well into their language, they might not know it was a specific day.

Did you know that Cinco de Mayo is not celebrated very much in Mexico? Cinco de Mayo is actually a fabricated holiday for Americans to drink margaritas and have a party.

It is also not the Mexican day of Independence. That is September 16th. Cinco de Mayo celebrates a Mexican victory over French forces at the Battle of Puebla, May 5th 1862.

Anyway, today is Cinco de Mayo. When is it next year?

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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Star Wars Day!!!

My friend Shawn Fransensengens turned me on to this nice little joke.

Today is Star Wars day.

May the 4th be with you.
ha. ha.

I was in California for Jr and Sr highschool and my first year of college. I moved away in 1976. I missed my friends, imagine that. So I drove back for a visit it 1977. I was visiting my friend Dan Denevue in San Jose California in 1977. The Star Wars movie came out in May, I was there in June or July. There were still long lines to watch the first Star Wars film. I was visiting Dan for 10 days. During that time we saw the movie 7 times. I loved it. Still do.

Happy Star Wars day.
May the 4th be with you.

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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things to be thankful for

I was watching a war movie the other night.  It struck me how terrible it must be to aim a rifle and put another human being in your sights.

I am thankful that I have never had to do that.  I am thankful that I never wanted to do that.

I am also for ten other random things...

I am not sick, nor have I been for a while.

I have clothes on my back.

My son is doing better.

In my recent physical exams, I have been given memory evaluations, and have passed with flying colors.

I am thankful for healthy children.

I am thankful for cars that start.

I am thankful for the gift of work, of labor.

I am thankful that I woke up this morning.

Surely there is something in each person's life that they can be thankful for.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

A meaningful May

My friend John sent this in... well worth the reading... 

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

Trust vs worry

Jesus said, do not worry.  How can it benefit you?  Can you add a moment to your life? Can you make yourself taller?

We all worry.  And, we all trust.  We just wish that we trusted God more often than we worried.  I have noticed something: when trust arrives, worry leaves.  When we take the time to really think that God is trustworthy, worry leaves.

You can't think about two things at the same time. It is impossible to do so.  Think about how big a problem is and God shrinks away. Think about trusting God, and worry gets smaller.  When trust arrives, worry leaves.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

pulled in 7 different directions

Sometimes I feel like I am being pulled in 7 different directions.  I guess that it is my own fault.  I get involved in jobs here and there, I have maintenance issues at our house, clients want me to help them... and so it goes.

It can be very unnerving to have too many things going on at once.  When it rains it pours.

So what to do?  Take a deep breath, focus on one thing at a time.  Knock out the tasks one at a time.  Make progress.

Don't worry.  Don't fret. [I am talking to myself.]

Find peace.  Every things is going to be ok.  No, everything is ok.

Busy or not, try to remember that He holds the whole world in his hands.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

Grocery Stores

I am thankful for grocery stores.

I have always known grocery stores.  When I was a kid we shopped at the A&P store at 90th and Wornall Rd.  In California we shopped at the Safeway on Almaden Road.  I have never known a time when I could not go to the grocery store and get just about anything.

So I walked into the Whole Foods store in Boca the other day.  I was amazed at the layout of the hot food/salad bar - buy it by the pound section.  It was amazing.

These pictures barely scratch the surface of what is available.  It is an amazing spread.

I thought of the grocery stores in Russia.  Small, paltry, not much on the shelves.  I thought of how the families would get together and pool resources to share a meal.

I thought of the friends in Nicaragua who will never in their life see such grocery stores.

I remember a friend telling me a story about bringing over engineers from Russia to train them in their business.  They would take them to the grocery store to buy food to cook.  The Russians would say that this is not real.  That the Americans just created this ruse of a food store to impress them.

What we take for granted, most people in the world cannot fathom.

We are so fortunate.  We are so fortunate.  We are so fortunate.

I thank God for grocery stores.  May we all do everything that we can to help those who live in food scarcity.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

Love

Can you get enough of thoughts about love?  I don't think so.  Love is such a beautiful, wonderful, amazing thing to have and to give.

I credit my friend Bruce with finding this quote...

So let's all keep striving to deliver love to everyone we can.  Even to rental car companies whose vehicles will not start.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

Darn truck won't start

So I am working in Boca Raton.  The second shift.   Basically 4pm - Midnight.  I am having a lovely day.  I got to bed at 2am so I slept til 11am.  I woke up, worked on the computer, and hit the hotel pool.  Then I got ready to go to work.

At 2:30 I went out to get in the rental truck to go pick up my co-worker.  

The rental truck won't start.  2024 Dodge Ram pickup.  15,000 miles.  Won't start.  OK>  Here we go.  I call the 800 number for roadside assistance.  For ten minutes I am in their phone tree.  Press one if you need this.  Press two if you need that.

I am going to be late for work. 😠😡😖

I land on a selection that gives me choices for getting help.  The cheapest option is $125.  This is a rental vehicle.  I am not paying for anything.  Someone come save me.  Can I talk to a real human please.

I start the call over.  After another ten minutes, I am somehow connected to a nice lady whose English is not her first language.  So here is the deal she tells me.  I have to wait with the vehicle for 90 minutes until a tow truck gets there.  Then the tow truck will drive me 25 miles to the West Palm airport where I can get another car.

No sorry, I tell her, that is not going to work.  I am now fully engaged in saying my prayers.  Jesus don't let me be ugly.  It is not her fault.  I am pulling my hair out!  I ask if they can uber me to the airport.  She says sure, but if you leave the vehicle and anything happens to it, the damage will be your responsibility.  What???  Your truck won't run and somehow if something else happens to it -it will be my fault?

UGH.

I called an uber.  The driver was nice.  I practiced bio-feedback on the way to the airport.  The driver took me right to the rental counter.  There was no line.  In a few minutes I had another truck.

[wait a minute, it's stopped raining, guys are swimming, guys are sailing...]  So I tear off in a mad dash to get to the job site.  Now through 45 minutes of south Florida rush hour traffic... but at least I am back in business.

Moral of the story... Life is not always going to align itself to make you happy, even when you are paying it.  Patience is a virtue.  Everything will work out in the end.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good, even when the vehicle won't start.

What is wrong with me???

I am on a job in Boca Raton for a couple of weeks.  We are working 7 days a week on the remodel of a store.  I have loaded dumpsters, disassembled old desks, fixed holes in walls and such.  We are working from 3pm until midnight.

And I love it.  When I got to the hotel after work, I was walking in and I thought, "oh, my how I love this."  And then I thought, "what is wrong with me?"

I guess it sounds funny, but I love to work.  I don't sit still very well.  I am so glad that at the age of 66 to be healthy enough to carry on such work.  I am glad to still be making a difference in the world.  I am glad to meet new people and be nice to them.

Work is important.  If a person can learn to work, then much of life becomes clear.  I used to tell my kids, "make yourself indispensable to the corporation."  I told them that because it is good advice, and it was told to me 1,000 times by my father.

Work is good.  I thank God for the ability to work.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

Songs for Bible Characters

A dear friend shared this...

Songs For Bible Characters

Noah: "Raindrops Keep Falling on My Head"

Adam and Eve: "Strangers in Paradise"

Lazarus: "The Second Time Around"

Esther: "I Feel Pretty"

Job: "I've Got a Right to Sing the Blues"

Moses: "The Wanderer"

Jezebel: "The Lady is a Tramp"

Samson: "Hair"

Salome: "I Could Have Danced All Night"

Daniel: "The Lion Sleeps Tonight"

Joshua: "Good Vibrations"

Peter: "I'm Sorry"

Esau: "Born To Be Wild"

Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego: "Great Balls of Fire!"

The Three Kings: "When You Wish Upon a Star"

Jonah: "Got a Whale of a Tale"

Elijah: "Up, Up, and Away"

Methuselah: "Stayin' Alive"

Nebuchadnezzar: "Crazy"

Hope that brought a smile to your heart. It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

A good man?

I was watching the movie "Equalizer 3."  In the movie a doctor asks Denzel Washington if he is a good man or a bad man.

He answered, "I don't know."

I find it interesting that this is the answer that the doctor was hoping for.  If Washington had said, "no I am not a good man, that would be trouble..."  If he said, "yes I am a good man," that would have been arrogant.

So are you a good person?  "I don't know" appears to be a nice humble response.

So let's keep working on it and doing the best that we can.  Let others decide if we are good people or not.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

More on birds

My friend Mary went for a walk. as she walked, she asked God how He would speak to her today. Within minutes She saw these two cheery fellows and they joyfully sang and shared God's presence with her! She was reminded that she is not alone!

She wrote to me, "Friends, don’t despair. God is waiting for You to ask Him to speak. You will be surprised at how quickly He responds! He’s with you! You’re not alone!!


It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

Hear the birds

My friend Bruce located and shared this story with me...

Many years ago, I needed serious surgery while working as an English teacher in China. I spent weeks recovering and I was alone except for one clergy member who left meals at my door. My mother, 87, called me each day from her retirement community. She always ended her call with one question: “Do you hear the birds?” At first, I softly laughed, and ignored her question. Finally, after one of our calls, I cracked the window open by my bed. And I was shocked to find—I could hear the birds singing brightly outside. I felt soothed and comforted by the sound. It even made me feel less alone. For those weeks of recovery, my mother and I ended our calls by affirming that we both heard the birds outside. Today, when my children are discouraged, I ask, “Do you hear the birds?” For our family, it has become a way of reminding ourselves that Nature’s healing presence is always just outside.
                                                              —Donnalee B.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

nothing

And so as I write this post tonight, for tomorrow morning, I have nothing to say...  I hope that you will understand that sometimes, we humans have nothing to add, nothing to say.

We all feel that way from time to time.  And it is ok to feel that way.

But it is still a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

Blessed are the flexible...

So it looks as if the Ireland trip has closed.  We got word from the tour company that the hotels were now full and there would not be room for additional travelers.  So if you were thinking about going but have not signed up, maybe we can go somewhere else next year.

Now speaking of trips... last year on the Holy Land trip, someone reminded me of the phrase "blessed are the flexible, for they will not be bent out of shape."

I love it.  Sometimes the world just does not line up to make me happy.  So be flexible.  Blessed are those who choose to be flexible... they won't be bent out of shape.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

If you woke up it is a good day

When I first started the blog in 2007, I wrote a post every morning.  That was a good deal of pressure back then, to have to write every single day.  Some days, you just don't feel so thoughtful or spiritual, but back then, I wrote every morning.

Somewhere along the line, things changed and I realized that I could schedule the blog posts.  I can write a bit and it will post in a day or two.  I can stay ahead of the game.  But then there are days like the last few, when I am trying to go to bed and I realize that I have nothing posted. 

What will I write about?  Part of what is happening is that I am really busy.  66 years old and really busy.  But I want to put something out there for tomorrow morning.  Heck one of my favorite teachers is joining the blog tomorrow morning!!!

So what to say???  I am thankful for late night calls from friends.  I am thankful for teachers.  My teachers and everyone else's.  I am thankful for people that I have connected with in this life.

Life is good.  Life is short.  Life is amazing.  Enjoy your day.  If you woke up, it is a beautiful day.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Love and Judgment

Love and judgment are mutually exclusive. The moment that we judge someone, we have stopped loving them.

Imagine that I am telling you about a friend of mine and about how wonderful they are. Your heart is warmed by my description. Then when you meet them, you see that they are covered with tattoos, with piercings, they are wearing a rainbow shirt and they are smoking.

Your brain might automatically recoil in judgment.

What happened to how your heart was warmed by my description of them?  Our propensity to judge others pushes love right out of the way.

Had our hearts been only filled with love, we would have met the person and not have been surprised or affected by their appearance.

The next time that you catch yourself judging someone, stop yourself and think- - -  instead of judging them, see them as a person. See them as God sees them.  The moment that we do that, judgment leaves.

Love and judgment are mutually exclusive. Which one do you want your life to be dominated by?

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Stew

A stew is a combination of solid food ingredients that have been cooked in liquid and served in the resultant gravy.

We all get stew. Toss the ingredients of your choice into a pot and cook it. After a few generations, your family's stew recipe may become famous. Everyone may clamor for the ingredients to old Grandma' Smith's stew.

But this is not the only stew, nor is it the only way to make it. One might insist that this is the only real stew, but then one would be wrong.

And so it is with Christianity. There are over 33,000 different denominations, each with their own stew recipe. They hand pick certain scriptures and traditions and cook them in a pot. Then they insist that their doctrine stew is the only right one.

Hogwash.

Just because your family, your pastor and your predecessors insisted that their particular doctrinal stew was correct does not mean that it is. In fact, people refusing to accept any other views is just plain silly.

So each of us must pick and choose what we will believe. Or we can join the rising ranks of those who choose "none of the above."

Personally, I only want one thing in the pot. Love.

I don't need a complicated stew. I am totally happy with consuming and giving love. I can do it every day. Let others fight over opinions of the second coming, spiritual gifts and social issues. I don't want to fight. I just want to love.

Nothing else matters.

What is in your pot of stew???

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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a simple sermon

I once heard a story about a pastor who stood up to preach.  

His sermon was three words.  He stood up, paused, looked at the people and said, "love one another."

Then he sat down.

That was it.  That was all.  Love one another.  Nothing more will be said.  Nothing more needs to be said.  There is no new or better interpretation of the Christian faith.  

Love one another.  That is all that there is.

Saying Thank You

Last Friday I met with a great group of guys.  They meet every Friday morning.  I join them when I can.

We had a wonderful talk that morning about love, feeling love and giving it away.  We talked particularly about two really super guys:  Walt Barnes and Len Bennett.  I thought, "you know, I am going to send them a card."  After the meeting I went to the grocery store and bought two cards.  Words of thanks are on the way.  

Love isn't love til you give it away.

Who can you send a card to?  Who is one of the most fantastic people that you know?  Have you told them?

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Rogers and Hammerstein

For several years I got a Christmas card from a law firm this this inscription inside...

“A bell's not a bell 'til you ring it - A song's not a song 'til you sing it - Love in your heart wasn't put there to stay - Love isn't love 'til you give it away!”

I clipped the quote from the card and had it taped to my office door for years.

Do you have love in your heart?  It isn't really love until you give it away.  Love causes us to exercise the act of sharing it.  

Love isn't love 'til you give it away.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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The other half

The other day I was leaving a store that has a greeter at the front door.  I was struck by the disfiguration of this poor human.

We look in the mirror each day and worry about hair loss or wrinkles or being out of shape.  And then we run into someone who never had a chance.  They were disfigured, deformed from birth.

This person said to me, thanks for shopping, have a good day.  I said "you have a good day as well."

I didn't know what to think.  We have so many blessings and there are so many who do not.

As I was leaving the parking lot, I noticed a pop up camper parked in the lot of a vacant restaurant.  There was a pile of trash on one end of the camper and a BBQ grill at the other.  Obviously, someone was living in this camper in the vacant restaurant parking lot.

I felt bad.  It is so easy to get caught up in our lives and forget that there are so many out there that are in serious need.

I don't know how to help such problems, but I do believe this... paying attention and being aware of them is a huge step in the right direction.

Do you know how the other half lives?

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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The value of showing up

One of the things that I have learned over the years is the simple value of showing up.  People show up through their pain, through cancer, through financial upsets, etc.  They show up for themselves, they show up for others.  Showing up says that we honor God even in difficult times.  Showing up says that there is a glimmer of hope in seeking God.  If you are having a bad day, a bad month or a bad moment, just stay with the program.

Get up, take a step in the right direction.  Show up.  It will be good for you, and good for someone else.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Let's get small

By the way, we have had several more sign up for the Ireland trip recently.  If you are considering it, click the link below.  It is going to be a very fun group.

Today's post... Let's get small.

Steve Martin did a gig years ago called "let's get small."  I think the album was called let's get small.  Great funnies for the times... 

The other night I was sitting with some friends.  I got small.  I said some things that were small.  Like gossip I guess.  Opinions that were not that nice.

Friends let you be small.  I don't do it often, but it is nice to have a safe place to get small.  Friends let you say whatever you need to say.  Friends are not offended.  Friends may tell you when that is enough.

But it is wonderfully nice to be able to be human.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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I love my friend

I love my friend.

I was in his kitchen the other day.  We were talking and I was struck with this feeling... I love this guy.  Yes, he has his moments, yes he has his quirks, [don't we all...]  I know the moments and I know the quirks and I don't care... I don't see them.  They are not on my radar.  I just love this guy.

And then I thought... that must be how God loves us... He know that we did not follow the rules... he knows that we have our moments and our quirks... but he loves us.  He doesn't even see the "stuff."  

He just totally loves us.  

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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accepting reality

My friend Bev sent this to me. It is a quote from the big blue book of AA. I have edited it just a bit for readability.

Accepting things as they are is the answer to all of my problems...

When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing or situation - some fact of my life - unacceptable to me, and I cannot find or will not find any serenity until I choose to accept that person, place, thing or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment.

Nothing, absolutely nothing happens in God's world by mistake.  Until I accept myself, my situation and my life completely on life's terms, I cannot be happy.

I need to concentrate not so much on what happens in the world as on what needs to be changed in me and in my attitudes!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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